Sunday, December 19, 2010

and so it is Christmas

What can I say. . .Winter has come to Maryland. . .we are known for humidity in the summer and non drivers in the snowy Winter months. Snow on a boat is another thing, while we are toasty warm below deck but  we need to come up from our warm haven eventually.

This week I will go buy a table top Christmas tree for Ava, the mast is not cutting it for her so she says. Shopping for her is done, I have put to use the media room for wrapping and storing and Christmas movie night. Ava says Santa needs a lot of room for  her gifts. . .

Not much going on right now at the marina, everyone is gone. . .we are alone and taking over the place. . The bubblers are up and running in the water around the stern (back) of the boat, noisy but doing there job. We will be installing a hanging rod in the shower for clothes this week and changing the rugs to all one color. . .I am going with an off white theme and will do the same with curtains come the first of the year. Cleaning takes me 45 min. a day and I am hoping Santa brings me a new Dirt Devil for Christmas since I vacuum every day and mine is old and worn out. For Christmas Papa and I are ordering from Santa reclining cock pit seats. . .NICE. We are already getting our selves ready for Spring Sailing, funny how all of our boat neighbors are saying they will visit us in Feb. to see if we have survived. . .not sure what they expect to happen to us. What people do not understand is we are gone during the day and home only in the evening when the boat is toasty warm, our beds are heated and the temp is 72. The coldest part is walking up the dock but we know we are going to a warm place and the scenery is beautiful.

For Christmas we will be going to our son Shannon's and Grandma's, the week after Papa's family is arriving and staying at the Hampton Inn 12 miles away with a pool and Spa. . .that is where you will find me! We really have 2 1/2 months to go of dreary Winter. . we can survive that!

Merry Christmas to all and to all a Warm Night!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Early Winter

Time for an update. . since I last wrote we have taken down the sails and Winterized the boat so no sailing(haha) until Spring. It was not really as sad a day for us as it is for many other sailors taking down the sheets since we live on our boat, what was sad was thinking that we have to put these back on in the Spring. We insulated everything that did not move, this makes a huge difference in sound and warmth and light entering the boat.

Sunday the hatches were insulated and there went the light from the out side, I now know what living in an igloo is like. I might add I have not vacuumed in 3 days because I can't see the dirt and this may be a good thing until I can't find Ava or the cats.

Last week we had a front come through which brought torrential storms, we had what was called a "Fall Tide" it was high tide then with the winds and current it brought water from the bay into the River. For us this meant the water was over the dock, there was no getting off the boat or on until after 8 pm when the tide went down. At one point Ava and I had to sit and hold on to each other the boat was lurching as if we were sailing.

This week we have had below freezing temps and Gayle winds out of the NW, it has made walking down the dock quite difficult. Ava now rides in a cart to and from the boat and we only access the boat alone if it is day light , if not we wait in the media room for Papa to walk with us.


Our heating system has been a challenge, we are now back to using electric heat not the boats central heating system, since the water is to cold to run through the coil. The beds are heated with  electric blankets, we put them on top of the mattress with a comforter on top . We then sleep on top of the comforter with another on top. . very warm. Most nights we can hear the water lapping or beating on the hull and the winds not so gently rocking us to sleep. I also now know what is meant by" sea legs" I can be standing anywhere on land and feel as if I am going to tip over.



As for cooking, I have mastered both the stove top and the oven. . . the water has been turned off on the dock which means we now carry water to the boat in 6 gallon containers to fill the tank. This is the main reason we do not shower on the boat, our tank is only 100 gal.basically all we use water for now on the boat is washing dishes. .  .this all sounds very primitive to me.


I find my daily clothing consists of Sketcher boots, boot socks(colorful) black leggings and a wool fisherman's sweater full of holes and a blouse underneath because the wool itches. . . I pick a pr. of stylish earrings to wear and that is it. . .wow. . I have changed.

I can tell I am firming up and building muscles in places I have never had muscles before. . nice. Christmas decorations are up and not so different for us, Papa has never been one to decorate, Ava and I decorated the cock pit with garland and ornaments, most of our singing animals are sitting all around the cock pit which is enclosed. For our tree we wrapped the mast that stands in the salon with garland and hung ornaments all around, no lights since we have limited electric. We do have a Parrot on a swing that we light up on weekends.

I Love my new Life but have to say I can't wait for Spring!

Monday, November 15, 2010

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6 weeks

 Spent a nice night off the boat, I must admit I missed hearing the water lap against the Hull. Hard to believe it has been 6 weeks and I am still not organized. I am going to try something new tomorrow. . .moving things into different storage areas. The hanging lockers are useless in the Winter since they are a haven for moisture, clothes in the drawers need to be rolled not folded. I will pick 5 of my favorite tops and bottoms and that will be my weekly wardrobe. I will keep good clothes in the car along with my shoes, under ware and socks go in plastic bags in the drawer for freshness. I need to unpack my suitcase that is stored in the shower as well as the sea bags that hold work clothes and sweat shirts.

We have had frost already and are due 3 days of straight rain, the tides have been high as well as a current which makes it hard getting on and off the boat but we manage. Our favorite laundry /TV room has closed for the Winter so it's back to the media room here and going to different laundromats.

I drive 47 miles every day to take Ava to school then hang out at the gym in Centerville instead of driving back to the boat, by Spring I should be back in shape again. We eat out at least 3 nights a week and fix meals at least 2. . .the other nights are some sort of left over. Monday is usually Pizza or something carry out,Tuesday Ava and I eat at the Club, Wed. I cook something easy, Thurs. is out somewhere, Friday is leftover night, Sat. is a Rest. close by and Sunday  is family dinner night. . either out or in.

The boat is Winterized except for the hatches and bunks, we will tackle those this weekend. Ava and I will start decorating for Christmas next week, this should be a challenge also but have gotten many great ideas. from boat magazines. We look forward to whatever the Winter brings, being the only people in the Marina at night makes it lonely but nothing we weren't used to in the house.  We now have a light in the cock pit which gives us another room to use. . .a plus all around.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Laundry weekend

Something I will never get used to. . . after 36 years with a washer and dryer at my disposal. Oh Well. . .this week has been a hustle and bustle one at our marina and the 3 surrounding ones. This is the time of year boaters either Winterize there boats or haul them out of the water. Not the Knighton's! We are it at the Marina, good thing we have had dogs in the past to know what walking down a long dock to take a shower or use the computer in sleet,snow,ice and wind is like. We will have the boat pulled out next winter to paint the bottom and have some work done on it so this year will be a get to know you boat.

Yesterday we did what they call flipping the boat, we pulled the stern in first. . .or as land lubbers call it we backed the boat in. It took a village and then some, our boat does not respond to backing up at all, it was the way it was designed. But with help from Shannon, Shawn and 3 other boaters plus Papa they did it. I was below with Ava and Luke making them lunch and watching all the activity. The good thing is we will now have central heat until the real blast of heat hits us, then we will be back to some kind of space heaters. There is a Hampton Inn Convention Center 10 miles away with a pool and Spa if we need it.

The next luxury we will get is Direct TV. I am not coming to another Marina to watch TV when the bad weather hits. We have mastered so far. . .sleeping and cooking. . for the first month that is not all bad!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

It's been 1 month

Hard to believe we are having the same weather one month later. . Rain. hmmmm. . if I had a personal astrologer I would have asked if this was a good Fall to move on a boat. I don't so here we are. I type sitting in the cock pit because we do not get a signal in the cabin, one day I will get an antennae but it's not today. We have not turned the boat around yet so we are heating the cabin with a tiny elec. heater, to most this does not make sense. It takes 2 elec. cords to get power below. . .with the boat in the slip nose first we only have one cord plugged in and that is for daily use. Most of the time I spend tripping the switches because I am trying to run 2 things on one side of the boat at the same time. Just like my house growing up, I can't have the heater running if I want to make a cup of coffee.  .I can't use the microwave if Kevin has his sleep machine going. . trust me that is all that is plugged in. I have become an electric minimalist. Because we pay for the elec in our slip fee I can have all the lights on at one time. . .big deal they are  little dome lights. Since Kevin has not put a light in the cock pit yet I now wear a headband with a light attatched, good thing we are the only ones in the Marina. Why we are not sailing South is beyond me,

I believe the big event of turning the boat around and taking the sails down for the Winter will happen this Sat. Then we can turn on the heating system that is on the boat. . until we hit the really cold weather in Jan. or tomorrow.

I ask myself everyday. . Am I crazy. . .or is this the part of the Dream where you wake up to go to the bathroom and miss it all together. 

The Great part of this adventure is, I have Mastered the game "Go Fish" and am ready to start playing "War" with Ava and Papa tonight. We will start decorating our sea shells "Martha Stewart" style next week. I have learned to sleep with 2 cats laying on top of me to keep warm and not have to go to the bathroom because the bathroom has no heat right now.

As I stop because I have no feeling in my fingers you can say. . ."Yes Nita, You are Crazy or that is one Crazy Dream" !

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Not sure what week this is. . .

Not sure if Life on a boat causes a ripple of effects or that is just Life in general. Your attitude changes, things that seemed to be important aren't any more. I got rid of a monkey on my back. . a volunteer job that was un appreciated. . .but I enjoyed every moment. When it came to going to something stressful or being on the boat and looking out on the peaceful water. . it wasn't a hard decision.

Since the week before we moved on to "Adventuress" we have had awful rain storms. . .you have heard of "Murphy's Law". . . well Murphy was a sailor. . who had no luck. That seems to be us, it has rained more days than there have been nice days. . however you take the good with the bad and have plenty of towels on hand.

We have replaced a electrical cord that could have set the boat on fire, we only found it when we took the boat our for a ride last weekend. . we almost did not go. . YIKES! fixed that. . ran out of water in the middle of doing dishes. . .fixed that. . .it is a good thing to remember when you filled your water tank last. The past 5 days have been a challenge to get on and off the boat for Ava and myself, between low tide,winds and the current the boat was a great distance from the finger dock. Monday. . .after many failed attempts to pull the boat over with the line, I tried laying on my stomach and having Ava use my body as a bridge to board the boat. . . she was afraid and so was I. We then sat in the wind and tried to come up with a solution for us and all of our groceries. After 30 min. I did lay on my stomach and pull the boat over for Ava to get on, after she did so she quickly ran below leaving me to fen for myself. I finally made it doing the splits several times(which my body did not appreciate). The lines are tied correctly, the problem is when you pull the line the front of the boat comes to the dock not the back where we need to access. Kevin is usually at work or school and says he does not have a problem getting on. . I am having a plank built next week he will be the first to try it out!

Yesterday the rains came. . .and found there way down the mast to the cabin, which is not unusual.. . a lot of cleanup then down to the business of dinner. I have down pat turning the propane on in the cock pit then flipping the gas switch then on to lighting the stove. . .in the meantime Kevin decides to fill the water tank before we run out again. . .Reminder to self. . close the Port Holes before doing so. I was cooking when gushes of water came through the windows onto the stove and nav station. . .All I could think to yell at the time was KEVIN!!!!!!!. . .wet tacos are not tasty but I am sure it is not the first wet dinner we will eat nor will it be the last time I run out of towels.

I feel right now as if I have always lived this Lifestyle. . until the next thing happens. I am sitting at the laundromat at the next marina(I obtained the pass code from a friendly gentleman. . .it has nice washers and dryers, a fantastic lounge with WiFi and a TV with dish net. . . it looks out on the Sassafras River filled with sail boats. I then realise, I can live with out many things but I can not live with out this calmness and beauty.

I am also going to Centerville to look at a gym that has Showers. .  .now this really excites me!!!!!

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Changes in me

Not only are there changes in my lifestyle now because of living on a sail boat but there are noticeable changes in me. We can start with appearance . . .I mainly wear a baseball cap now that says "Living Aboard" this way I don't have to worry about my hair that is already short but is effected by moisture. I only wear a little make up now so that I don't look like a ghost, no more nails, , just one more thing to worry about. . . I live in sweat shorts or jeans and sweat shirts. Shoes are crocks or Rebock walkers.

These changes are not entirely new since I adapted some of these when I gave up working almost 5 yrs ago, but a dress or nice clothes are not a part of daily life unless I find a uniform to wear that conforms with this new lifestyle change.

I have noticed in the little time we have lived aboard my skin is tougher, I have leg and arm muscles from constantly climbing off the boat and pulling the boat closer to the dock to get on and off. My appetite has slowed down, I am pretty sure I just don't eat on the boat a lot because it is a pain to fix food. Salads are the popular meal or anything cooked in the microwave. I am going to try cooking eggs in a few min.(microwave of course).

I am hoping for the biggest change to come within my head, survival through the Winter is now the most important part of my life, not the trivial crap going on in a volunteer position. There is no actual way I could have prepared for this new life except living it. I read many books but none give you specific detail as to how to live day to day and the changes you will see.

I used to sit in the hot tub and just listen to nature now I sit in a cold cock pit and watch nature and water mix and know this is effecting me more than I ever expected. 

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

into third week

Life on a sail boat is getting to comfortable, piles are starting and lingering. . I have never lived like that. The one pattern I do see returning to my lifestyle is the ironing board,clothes and iron are up, some what smaller but visible.


We are getting the hang of stopping at the shower house on the way to and from the boat, shower nights, how to get on the boat in low and high tide as well as off. Sleeping patterns, it all falls in place as a routine is set. I don't feel the need to tell people I live on a boat, as people who live in a trailer do not share that info either. I do realise we are living many others dreams but make sure I don't give up mine for there's.

Not much of anything new has happened as far as life here, it's quiet and each day more and more boats leave the slips. We are getting ready to make our lists of improvements and get ready for the Winter months. I am paying our slip feel today that will keep us here for 1 yr.

I am still trying to get used to the fact I live out of my car as I did when my kids were younger. They were in so many sports it was easier keeping some of our belongings with us then constantly going back home.

The weather has been consistent, Rain! and some sunny days. I clean more than I did in a house because it is a smaller space and spend more time cleaning up after meals. . that I have to work on.

Will update changes on Friday

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Start of week Two

I can't say it has gotten any easier. . a lot like living in a motel or smaller. This week we cooked on the propane stove in the galley. .I like carry out more and more. Note to self...look for friends who cook. It seems my quiet days on the boat are spent organizing and re organizing. Car was broken into this week, DVD's were taken. . the one I am the saddest about is Captain Ron. . I will order that tomorrow....close your eyes Papa. I can't say there are any new revelations this week. . Remember the Air Stream Trailers. . that is what living on a sailboat is like. I do love my Berth!



 I just heard there are flood watches here. . .I saw some animals lining up 2 by 2 at our dock. . what's that about?

Until Sunday. . Tip your carry out waitress!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

First week

I can not describe what I thought living on a 40 ft. sailboat would be like and what it really is. Many days of organizing and reorganizing, knowing what you can live with and what you have to live without. Torrential rains, the boat does not leak which is a good thing but condensation is a big problem. Everything has to be in plastic, I found out the hard way and have spent many hours at the laundromat at the first marina. Food prep. is is ok but cooking is non existent for the time being. We have a 2 burner propane stove that is yet to be hooked up so it is low watt. microwave or sand whiches. Which brings me to the refridge. . it is one of the best for a boat but is still like living out of a stacked cooler, naturally everything you need is on the bottom, now matter how I organize that it will never be perfect, just passable. Sleeping quarters are smaller than we are used to, since we have reverted back to the infant stage where any fresh air tires you out it has not been a problem. The berths are double beds as well as the settee that converts to a double bed as well. I am used to the fact that I can use the head(toilet) as well as make coffee at the same time. I can also choose my wardrobe for the day and clean the kitty litter at the same time(that will change today). When Papa is not on board there is plenty of room for Ava and myself to move around the vessel with ease, add Papa and someone has top sit. He is not here much since he is the one paying for this life style but when he is I go to the enclosed cock pit for some bonding with nature.

The cats are adjusting very well, they are on land as I type exploring there new home. I hope they don't like land better! Ava is adjusting very well also, she just took a lap around the deck and swung from as many lines as she could possibly do safely. She thinks this is fun and can't wait until she is Boat Schooled, I can't either it will eliminate the 40 min. ride to her current school. Which brings me to wake up times in the morning. Papa leaves out of here at 4:30 am, we wake at 6 am to eat,get dressed and easily get off the boat if it is low tide, if it is high tide we need to allow another 5 min. to accurately jump on the dock.

Showers are taken at night up in the shower house as to not add any more moisture to the boat, the boat does have a lovely shower that will be used in the Summer or when we are traveling South.

To many we are Crazy. . .to us we are living a new Life Style and enjoying it. . .we have been asked many times this week if we knew before what we know now would we do this again. . . .we did not have to think long. . YES ! It will only get better I think